xfs: nowait aio support

If IOCB_NOWAIT is set, bail if the i_rwsem is not lockable
immediately.

IF IOMAP_NOWAIT is set, return EAGAIN in xfs_file_iomap_begin
if it needs allocation either due to file extension, writing to a hole,
or COW or waiting for other DIOs to finish.

Return -EAGAIN if we don't have extent list in memory.

Signed-off-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>