netlink: Convert netlink_lookup() to use RCU protected hash table

Heavy Netlink users such as Open vSwitch spend a considerable amount of
time in netlink_lookup() due to the read-lock on nl_table_lock. Use of
RCU relieves the lock contention.

Makes use of the new resizable hash table to avoid locking on the
lookup.

The hash table will grow if entries exceeds 75% of table size up to a
total table size of 64K. It will automatically shrink if usage falls
below 30%.

Also splits nl_table_lock into a separate mutex to protect hash table
mutations and allow synchronize_rcu() to sleep while waiting for readers
during expansion and shrinking.

Before:
   9.16%  kpktgend_0  [openvswitch]      [k] masked_flow_lookup
   6.42%  kpktgend_0  [pktgen]           [k] mod_cur_headers
   6.26%  kpktgend_0  [pktgen]           [k] pktgen_thread_worker
   6.23%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] memset
   4.79%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] netlink_lookup
   4.37%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] memcpy
   3.60%  kpktgend_0  [openvswitch]      [k] ovs_flow_extract
   2.69%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] jhash2

After:
  15.26%  kpktgend_0  [openvswitch]      [k] masked_flow_lookup
   8.12%  kpktgend_0  [pktgen]           [k] pktgen_thread_worker
   7.92%  kpktgend_0  [pktgen]           [k] mod_cur_headers
   5.11%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] memset
   4.11%  kpktgend_0  [openvswitch]      [k] ovs_flow_extract
   4.06%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] _raw_spin_lock
   3.90%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] jhash2
   [...]
   0.67%  kpktgend_0  [kernel.kallsyms]  [k] netlink_lookup

Signed-off-by: Thomas Graf <tgraf@suug.ch>
Reviewed-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <nikolay@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>