nfs/filelayout: set layoutcommit depending on write verifier

Following http://www.rfc-editor.org/errata_search.php?rfc=5661&eid=2751


Don't set layoutcommit for commit_through_mds case.
For FILE_SYNC writes, don't set layoutcommit.
For DATA_SYNC wirtes, set layout commit right after wirtes done.
For UNSTABLE writes, set layout commit when commit done.

Signed-off-by: Peng Tao <tao.peng@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>