fs: add a set_acl inode operation

This will allow moving all the Posix ACL handling into the VFS and clean
up tons of cruft in the filesystems.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>