drm/ttm: use try_lock in ttm_bo_delayed_delete again

We only need to wait for the contended lock when the reservation object is
shared or when we want to remove everything. A trylock should be sufficient
in all other cases.

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Roger He <Hongbo.He@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellstrom <thellstrom@vmware.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>