netfilter: cttimeout: decouple timeout policy from nfnetlink_cttimeout object

The timeout policy is currently embedded into the nfnetlink_cttimeout
object, move the policy into an independent object. This allows us to
reuse part of the existing conntrack timeout extension from nf_tables
without adding dependencies with the nfnetlink_cttimeout object layout.

Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>