ntb_perf: Allow limiting the size of the memory windows

On my system, dma_alloc_coherent won't produce memory anywhere
near the size of the BAR. So I needed a way to limit this.

It's pretty much copied straight from ntb_transport.

Signed-off-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Acked-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jon Mason <jdmason@kudzu.us>