Btrfs: don't BUG_ON() in btrfs_orphan_add

This is just a screwup for developers, so change it to an ASSERT() so developers
notice when things go wrong and deal with the error appropriately if ASSERT()
isn't enabled.  Thanks,

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Fasheh <mfasheh@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>