Btrfs: fix NULL pointer crash when running balance and scrub concurrently

While running balance, scrub, fsstress concurrently we hit the
following kernel crash:

[56561.448845] BTRFS info (device sde): relocating block group 11005853696 flags 132
[56561.524077] BUG: unable to handle kernel NULL pointer dereference at 0000000000000078
[56561.524237] IP: [<ffffffffa038956d>] scrub_chunk.isra.12+0xdd/0x130 [btrfs]
[56561.524297] PGD 9be28067 PUD 7f3dd067 PMD 0
[56561.524325] Oops: 0000 [#1] SMP
[....]
[56561.527237] Call Trace:
[56561.527309]  [<ffffffffa038980e>] scrub_enumerate_chunks+0x24e/0x490 [btrfs]
[56561.527392]  [<ffffffff810abe00>] ? abort_exclusive_wait+0x50/0xb0
[56561.527476]  [<ffffffffa038add4>] btrfs_scrub_dev+0x1a4/0x530 [btrfs]
[56561.527561]  [<ffffffffa0368107>] btrfs_ioctl+0x13f7/0x2a90 [btrfs]
[56561.527639]  [<ffffffff811c82f0>] do_vfs_ioctl+0x2e0/0x4c0
[56561.527712]  [<ffffffff8109c384>] ? vtime_account_user+0x54/0x60
[56561.527788]  [<ffffffff810f768c>] ? __audit_syscall_entry+0x9c/0xf0
[56561.527870]  [<ffffffff811c8551>] SyS_ioctl+0x81/0xa0
[56561.527941]  [<ffffffff815707f7>] tracesys+0xdd/0xe2
[...]
[56561.528304] RIP  [<ffffffffa038956d>] scrub_chunk.isra.12+0xdd/0x130 [btrfs]
[56561.528395]  RSP <ffff88004c0f5be8>
[56561.528454] CR2: 0000000000000078

This is because in btrfs_relocate_chunk(), we will free @bdev directly while
scrub may still hold extent mapping, and may access freed memory.

Fix this problem by wrapping freeing @bdev work into free_extent_map() which
is based on reference count.

Reported-by: Qu Wenruo <quwenruo@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Wang Shilong <wangsl.fnst@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Miao Xie <miaox@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>