vhost: allow backends to filter memory sections

This patch introduces a vhost op for vhost backends to allow
them to filter the memory sections that they can handle.

Signed-off-by: Tiwei Bie <tiwei.bie@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>