shared/rm-rf: loop over nested directories instead of instead of recursing

To remove directory structures, we need to remove the innermost items first,
and then recursively remove higher-level directories. We would recursively
descend into directories and invoke rm_rf_children and rm_rm_children_inner.
This is problematic when too many directories are nested.

Instead, let's create a "TODO" queue. In the the queue, for each level we
hold the DIR* object we were working on, and the name of the directory. This
allows us to leave a partially-processed directory, and restart the removal
loop one level down. When done with the inner directory, we use the name to
unlinkat() it from the parent, and proceed with the removal of other items.

Because the nesting is increased by one level, it is best to view this patch
with -b/--ignore-space-change.

This fixes CVE-2021-3997, https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=2024639.
The issue was reported and patches reviewed by Qualys Team.
Mauro Matteo Cascella and Riccardo Schirone from Red Hat handled the disclosure.

(cherry picked from commit 5b1cf7a9)
(cherry picked from commit 911516e1)
(cherry picked from commit 6a28f8b5)