vfio-dev/mdpy-fb: Use fbdev I/O helpers

Set struct fb_ops and with FB_DEFAULT_IOMEM_OPS, fbdev's initializer
for I/O memory. Sets the callbacks to the cfb_ and fb_io_ functions.
Select the correct modules with Kconfig's FB_IOMEM_HELPERS token.

The macro and token set the currently selected values, so there is
no functional change.

v3:
	* use _IOMEM_ in commit message
v2:
	* updated to use _IOMEM_ tokens

Signed-off-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Sam Ravnborg <sam@ravnborg.org>
Acked-by: Helge Deller <deller@gmx.de>
Cc: Kirti Wankhede <kwankhede@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230803184034.6456-48-tzimmermann@suse.de