docs/bpf: Update bpf development Q/A file

bpf now has its own mailing list bpf@vger.kernel.org.
Update the bpf_devel_QA.rst file to reflect this.

Also llvm has switch to github with llvm and clang
in the same repo https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project.git.
Update the QA file with newer build instructions.

Signed-off-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200221004354.930952-1-yhs@fb.com