net/vdpa: Use readers/writers semaphore instead of cf_mutex

Replace cf_mutex with rw_semaphore to reflect the fact that some calls
could be called concurrently but can suffice with read lock.

Suggested-by: Si-Wei Liu <si-wei.liu@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Eli Cohen <elic@nvidia.com>
Message-Id: <20220518133804.1075129-5-elic@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>