net: convert some netlink netdev iterators to depend on the xarray

Reap the benefits of easier iteration thanks to the xarray.
Convert just the genetlink ones, those are easier to test.

Reviewed-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230726185530.2247698-3-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>