tun: remove possible false sharing in tun_flow_update()

As mentioned in https://github.com/google/ktsan/wiki/READ_ONCE-and-WRITE_ONCE#it-may-improve-performance


a C compiler can legally transform

if (e->queue_index != queue_index)
	e->queue_index = queue_index;

to :

	e->queue_index = queue_index;

Note that the code using jiffies has no issue, since jiffies
has volatile attribute.

if (e->updated != jiffies)
    e->updated = jiffies;

Fixes: 83b1bc12 ("tun: align write-heavy flow entry members to a cache line")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Cc: Zhang Yu <zhangyu31@baidu.com>
Cc: Wang Li <wangli39@baidu.com>
Cc: Li RongQing <lirongqing@baidu.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>