xprtrdma: Add "open" memreg op

The open op determines the size of various transport data structures
based on device capabilities and memory registration mode.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Tested-by: Devesh Sharma <Devesh.Sharma@Emulex.Com>
Tested-by: Meghana Cheripady <Meghana.Cheripady@Emulex.Com>
Tested-by: Veeresh U. Kokatnur <veereshuk@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>