bpf: Fix bpf_fib_lookup helper MTU check for SKB ctx

BPF end-user on Cilium slack-channel (Carlo Carraro) wants to use
bpf_fib_lookup for doing MTU-check, but *prior* to extending packet size,
by adjusting fib_params 'tot_len' with the packet length plus the expected
encap size. (Just like the bpf_check_mtu helper supports). He discovered
that for SKB ctx the param->tot_len was not used, instead skb->len was used
(via MTU check in is_skb_forwardable() that checks against netdev MTU).

Fix this by using fib_params 'tot_len' for MTU check. If not provided (e.g.
zero) then keep existing TC behaviour intact. Notice that 'tot_len' for MTU
check is done like XDP code-path, which checks against FIB-dst MTU.

V16:
- Revert V13 optimization, 2nd lookup is against egress/resulting netdev

V13:
- Only do ifindex lookup one time, calling dev_get_by_index_rcu().

V10:
- Use same method as XDP for 'tot_len' MTU check

Fixes: 4c79579b ("bpf: Change bpf_fib_lookup to return lookup status")
Reported-by: Carlo Carraro <colrack@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/161287789444.790810.15247494756551413508.stgit@firesoul