net: avoid potential false sharing in neighbor related code

There are common instances of the following construct :

	if (n->confirmed != now)
		n->confirmed = now;

A C compiler could legally remove the conditional.

Use READ_ONCE()/WRITE_ONCE() to avoid this problem.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>