cxl/port: Move 'cxl_ep' references to an xarray per port

In preparation for region provisioning that needs to walk the topology
by endpoints, use an xarray to record endpoint interest in a given port.
In addition to being more space and time efficient it also reduces the
complexity of the implementation by moving locking internal to the
xarray implementation. It also allows for a single cxl_ep reference to
be recorded in multiple xarrays.

Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220624041950.559155-2-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>