NFS: Replace atomic_t variables in nfs_direct_req with a single spin lock

Three atomic_t variables cause a lot of bus locking.  Because they are all
used in the same places in the code, just use a single spin lock.

Now that the atomic_t variables are gone, we can remove the request size
limitation since the code no longer depends on the limited width of atomic_t
on some platforms.

Test plan:
Compile with CONFIG_NFS and CONFIG_NFS_DIRECTIO enabled.  Millions of fsx
operations, iozone, OraSim.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <cel@netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>