perf evlist: Allow setting arbitrary leader

The leader of a group is the first, but allow it to be an arbitrary list
member so that for Intel topdown events slots may always be the group
leader.

Reviewed-by: Kajol Jain <kjain@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Acked-by: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@redhat.com>
Cc: Alexander Shishkin <alexander.shishkin@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Andi Kleen <ak@linux.intel.com>
Cc: John Garry <john.garry@huawei.com>
Cc: Kajol Jain <kjain@linux.ibm.com>
Cc: Kan Liang <kan.liang@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Mark Rutland <mark.rutland@arm.com>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Paul Clarke <pc@us.ibm.com>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: Riccardo Mancini <rickyman7@gmail.com>
Cc: Stephane Eranian <eranian@google.com>
Cc: Vineet Singh <vineet.singh@intel.com>
Link: http://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20211130174945.247604-1-irogers@google.com


Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>