fuse: Rename DIRECT_IO_RELAX to DIRECT_IO_ALLOW_MMAP

Although DIRECT_IO_RELAX's initial usage is to allow shared mmap, its
description indicates a purpose of reducing memory footprint. This
may imply that it could be further used to relax other DIRECT_IO
operations in the future.

Replace it with a flag DIRECT_IO_ALLOW_MMAP which does only one thing,
allow shared mmap of DIRECT_IO files while still bypassing the cache
on regular reads and writes.

[Miklos] Also Keep DIRECT_IO_RELAX definition for backward compatibility.

Signed-off-by: Tyler Fanelli <tfanelli@redhat.com>
Fixes: e78662e8 ("fuse: add a new fuse init flag to relax restrictions in no cache mode")
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v6.6
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>