RDMA/hns: Adjust definition of FRMR fields

FRMR is not well-supported on HIP08, it is re-designed for HIP09 and the
position of related fields is changed. Then the ULPs should be forbidden
to use FRMR on older hardwares.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1612924424-28217-1-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com


Signed-off-by: Yixing Liu <liuyixing1@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>