KVM: x86/xen: Documentation updates and clarifications

Most notably, the KVM_XEN_EVTCHN_RESET feature had escaped documentation
entirely. Along with how to turn most stuff off on SHUTDOWN_soft_reset.

Signed-off-by: David Woodhouse <dwmw@amazon.co.uk>
Message-Id: <20221226120320.1125390-6-dwmw2@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>