md: factor out a helper rdev_addable() from remove_and_add_spares()

There are no functional changes, just to make the code simpler and
prepare to delay remove_and_add_spares() to md_start_sync().

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230825031622.1530464-7-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com