Btrfs: be more selective in the defrag ioctl

The btrfs defrag ioctl had some bugs around delalloc accounting, and it
wasn't properly skipping pages that were not in the mapping.

It wasn't properly clearing the page checked flag, which could make the
writeback code ignore the page forever while pinning it as dirty.

This commit fixes those problems and makes defrag a little smarter.  It
skips holes and it doesn't waste time defragging large extents.  If a
tiny extent comes before a very large extent, it will defrag both of
them to make sure the tiny extent ends up next to something big.

Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>