vdpa: device feature provisioning

This patch allows the device features to be provisioned through
netlink. A new attribute is introduced to allow the userspace to pass
a 64bit device features during device adding.

This provides several advantages:

- Allow to provision a subset of the features to ease the cross vendor
  live migration.
- Better debug-ability for vDPA framework and parent.

Reviewed-by: Eli Cohen <elic@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220927074810.28627-2-jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>