media: v4l: ctrl: Provide unlocked variant of v4l2_ctrl_grab

Sometimes it may be necessary to grab a control while holding the control
handler's lock. Provide an unlocked variant of v4l2_ctrl_grab for the
purpose --- it's called __v4l2_ctrl_grab.

Signed-off-by: Sakari Ailus <sakari.ailus@linux.intel.com>
Acked-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab+samsung@kernel.org>