net/tcp: Add option for TCP-AO to (not) hash header

Provide setsockopt() key flag that makes TCP-AO exclude hashing TCP
header for peers that match the key. This is needed for interraction
with middleboxes that may change TCP options, see RFC5925 (9.2).

Co-developed-by: Francesco Ruggeri <fruggeri@arista.com>
Signed-off-by: Francesco Ruggeri <fruggeri@arista.com>
Co-developed-by: Salam Noureddine <noureddine@arista.com>
Signed-off-by: Salam Noureddine <noureddine@arista.com>
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Safonov <dima@arista.com>
Acked-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>