bpf: Introduce bpf_mem_free_rcu() similar to kfree_rcu().

Introduce bpf_mem_[cache_]free_rcu() similar to kfree_rcu().
Unlike bpf_mem_[cache_]free() that links objects for immediate reuse into
per-cpu free list the _rcu() flavor waits for RCU grace period and then moves
objects into free_by_rcu_ttrace list where they are waiting for RCU
task trace grace period to be freed into slab.

The life cycle of objects:
alloc: dequeue free_llist
free: enqeueu free_llist
free_rcu: enqueue free_by_rcu -> waiting_for_gp
free_llist above high watermark -> free_by_rcu_ttrace
after RCU GP waiting_for_gp -> free_by_rcu_ttrace
free_by_rcu_ttrace -> waiting_for_gp_ttrace -> slab

Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230706033447.54696-13-alexei.starovoitov@gmail.com