io_uring/msg_ring: fix flagging remote execution

There is a couple of problems with queueing a tw in io_msg_ring_data()
for remote execution. First, once we queue it the target ring can
go away and so setting IORING_SQ_TASKRUN there is not safe. Secondly,
the userspace might not expect IORING_SQ_TASKRUN.

Extract a helper and uniformly use TWA_SIGNAL without TWA_SIGNAL_NO_IPI
tricks for now, just as it was done in the original patch.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Fixes: 6d043ee1 ("io_uring: do msg_ring in target task via tw")
Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>