selftests: Add test for timing a bind request to a port with a populated bhash entry

This test populates the bhash table for a given port with
MAX_THREADS * MAX_CONNECTIONS sockets, and then times how long
a bind request on the port takes.

When populating the bhash table, we create the sockets and then bind
the sockets to the same address and port (SO_REUSEADDR and SO_REUSEPORT
are set). When timing how long a bind on the port takes, we bind on a
different address without SO_REUSEPORT set. We do not set SO_REUSEPORT
because we are interested in the case where the bind request does not
go through the tb->fastreuseport path, which is fragile (eg
tb->fastreuseport path does not work if binding with a different uid).

To run the test locally, I did:
* ulimit -n 65535000
* ip addr add 2001:0db8:0:f101::1 dev eth0
* ./bind_bhash_test 443

Signed-off-by: Joanne Koong <joannelkoong@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>