blk-mq: Allow blocking queue tag iter callbacks

A recent commit runs tag iterator callbacks under the rcu read lock,
but existing callbacks do not satisfy the non-blocking requirement.
The commit intended to prevent an iterator from accessing a queue that's
being modified. This patch fixes the original issue by taking a queue
reference instead of reading it, which allows callbacks to make blocking
calls.

Fixes: f5bbbbe4 ("blk-mq: sync the update nr_hw_queues with blk_mq_queue_tag_busy_iter")
Acked-by: Jianchao Wang <jianchao.w.wang@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>