ASoC: topology: fix oops/use-after-free case with dai driver

rmmod/modprobe tests expose a kernel oops when accessing the dai
driver pointer. This comes from the topology design which operates in
multiple passes. Each object removal happens at a specific iteration,
and the code checks for the iteration (order) number after the memory
containing the order was freed.

Fix this be clearing a reference to the dai driver and check its
validity to avoid dereferences.

Signed-off-by: Guennadi Liakhovetski <guennadi.liakhovetski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Pierre-Louis Bossart <pierre-louis.bossart@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>