net: Add sk_setsockopt() to take the sk ptr instead of the sock ptr

A latter patch refactors bpf_setsockopt(SOL_SOCKET) with the
sock_setsockopt() to avoid code duplication and code
drift between the two duplicates.

The current sock_setsockopt() takes sock ptr as the argument.
The very first thing of this function is to get back the sk ptr
by 'sk = sock->sk'.

bpf_setsockopt() could be called when the sk does not have
the sock ptr created.  Meaning sk->sk_socket is NULL.  For example,
when a passive tcp connection has just been established but has yet
been accept()-ed.  Thus, it cannot use the sock_setsockopt(sk->sk_socket)
or else it will pass a NULL ptr.

This patch moves all sock_setsockopt implementation to the newly
added sk_setsockopt().  The new sk_setsockopt() takes a sk ptr
and immediately gets the sock ptr by 'sock = sk->sk_socket'

The existing sock_setsockopt(sock) is changed to call
sk_setsockopt(sock->sk).  All existing callers have both sock->sk
and sk->sk_socket pointer.

The latter patch will make bpf_setsockopt(SOL_SOCKET) call
sk_setsockopt(sk) directly.  The bpf_setsockopt(SOL_SOCKET) does
not use the optnames that require sk->sk_socket, so it will
be safe.

Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220817061711.4175048-1-kafai@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>