xfs: standardize GFP flags usage in online scrub

Memory allocation usage is the same throughout online fsck -- we want
kernel memory, we have to be able to back out if we can't allocate
memory, and we don't want to spray dmesg with memory allocation failure
reports.  Standardize the GFP flag usage and document these requirements.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>