md: add check for sleepers in md_wakeup_thread()

Check for sleeping thread before attempting its wake_up in
md_wakeup_thread() to avoid unnecessary spinlock contention.

With a 6.1 kernel, fio random read/write tests on many (>= 100)
virtual volumes, of 100 GiB each, on 3 md-raid5s on 8 SSDs each
(building a raid50), show by 3 to 4 % improved IOPS performance.

Signed-off-by: Florian-Ewald Mueller <florian-ewald.mueller@ionos.com>
Reviewed-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jack Wang <jinpu.wang@ionos.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240327114022.74634-1-jinpu.wang@ionos.com


Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>