md: export helper md_is_rdwr()

There are no functional changes for now, prepare to fix a deadlock for
dm-raid456.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v6.7+
Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240305072306.2562024-4-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com