cxl/port: Record parent dport when adding ports

At the time that cxl_port instances are being created, cache the dport
from the parent port that points to this new child port. This will be
useful for region provisioning when walking the tree to calculate
decoder targets, and saves rewalking the dport list after the fact to
build this information.

Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220624041950.559155-1-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>