nfsd: Ensure sampling of the write verifier is atomic with the write

When doing an unstable write, we need to ensure that we sample the
write verifier before releasing the lock, and allowing a commit to
the same file to proceed.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>