[lld-macho] Properly handle & validate relocation r_length

Summary:
We should be reading / writing our addends / relocated addresses based on
r_length, and not just based on the type of the relocation. But since only
some r_length values are valid for a given reloc type, I've also added some
validation.

ld64 has code to allow for r_length = 0 in X86_64_RELOC_BRANCH relocs, but I'm
not sure how to create such a relocation...

Reviewed By: smeenai

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D80854