[clang] Provide a more specific diagnostic for a misplaced lambda capture-default.

Currently a capture-default which is not the first element in the lambda-capture
is diagnosed with a generic expected variable name or 'this' in lambda capture
list, which is true but not very helpful.

If we don't have already parsed a capture-default then a lone "&" or "=" is
likely to be a misplaced capture-default, so diagnose it as such.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D83681

Reviewed By: aaron.ballman