tcp: avoid spurious SYN flood detection at listen() time

At listen() time, there is a small window where listener is visible with
a zero backlog, triggering a spurious "Possible SYN flooding on port"
message.

Nothing prevents us from setting the correct backlog.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>