locking/atomic: Correct (cmp)xchg() instrumentation

All xchg() and cmpxchg() ops are atomic RMWs, but currently we
instrument these with instrument_atomic_write() rather than
instrument_atomic_read_write(), missing the read aspect.

Similarly, all try_cmpxchg() ops are non-atomic RMWs on *oldp, but we
instrument these accesses with instrument_atomic_write() rather than
instrument_read_write(), missing the read aspect and erroneously marking
these as atomic.

Fix the instrumentation for both points.

Signed-off-by: Mark Rutland <mark.rutland@arm.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@kernel.org>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20230413160644.490976-1-mark.rutland@arm.com
Cc: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>