IB/{hfi1, qib, rvt} Cleanup open coded sge usage

Several locations for manipulating sges use an open coded sequence
that is covered by helper functions.

Use the appropriate helper functions.

Signed-off-by: Michael J. Ruhl <michael.j.ruhl@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>