RDMA/cma: Add ability to specify type of service

Provide support to specify a type of service for a communication
identifier.  A new function call is used when dealing with IPv4
addresses.  For IPv6 addresses, the ToS is specified through the
traffic class field in the sockaddr_in6 structure.

Signed-off-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>

[ The comments Eitan Zahavi and myself have made over the v1 post at 
  <http://lists.openfabrics.org/pipermail/general/2007-August/039247.html

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  were fully addressed. ]
 
Reviewed-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@voltaire.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>