drm/nouveau: fence: separate fence alloc and emit

The new (VM_BIND) UAPI exports DMA fences through DRM syncobjs. Hence,
in order to emit fences within DMA fence signalling critical sections
(e.g. as typically done in the DRM GPU schedulers run_job() callback) we
need to separate fence allocation and fence emitting.

Reviewed-by: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@redhat.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230804182406.5222-8-dakr@redhat.com