[SCSI] libfcoe: convert FIP to lock with mutex instead of spin lock

It turns out most of the FIP work is now done from worker threads
or process context now, so there's no need to use a spin lock.

Change to use mutex instead of spin lock and delayed_work instead
of a timer.

This will make it nicer for the VN_port to VN_port feature that
will interact more with the libfc layers requiring that
spinlocks not be held.

Signed-off-by: Joe Eykholt <jeykholt@cisco.com>
Signed-off-by: Robert Love <robert.w.love@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>