bpf: Change bpf_setsockopt(SOL_IP) to reuse do_ip_setsockopt()

After the prep work in the previous patches,
this patch removes the dup code from bpf_setsockopt(SOL_IP)
and reuses the implementation in do_ip_setsockopt().

The existing optname white-list is refactored into a new
function sol_ip_setsockopt().

NOTE,
the current bpf_setsockopt(IP_TOS) is quite different from the
the do_ip_setsockopt(IP_TOS).  For example, it does not take
the INET_ECN_MASK into the account for tcp and also does not adjust
sk->sk_priority.  It looks like the current bpf_setsockopt(IP_TOS)
was referencing the IPV6_TCLASS implementation instead of IP_TOS.
This patch tries to rectify that by using the do_ip_setsockopt(IP_TOS).
While this is a behavior change,  the do_ip_setsockopt(IP_TOS) behavior
is arguably what the user is expecting.  At least, the INET_ECN_MASK bits
should be masked out for tcp.

Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220817061826.4180990-1-kafai@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>